破壞性-失去自信心
謙卑-從上帝的眼光看自己
自卑-從別人的眼光看自己
自卑與謙卑的比較
1）自卑感是個人自我形象的反映
Inferiority Complex is a reflection of one's self-image
1）自我健康形象的人能接納自己One with a healthy self-image will have self acceptance.
2）缺乏自我健康形象的人在乎別人如何看他
One who lacks a healthy self-image is concerned with how others look at himself/herself
從掃羅的生平來檢驗自卑的徵兆
撒上18:6-12，15-16
造成自卑感的四大因素
1）起源於原生家庭
From one's family background.
“Saul answered, “But am I not a Benjamite, from the smallest tribe of Israel, and is not my clan the least of all the clans of the tribe of Benjamin? Why do you say such a thing to me?””
1 Samuel 9:21 NIV
孤兒的靈
2）過去的失敗經歷
From one's past experiences of failures
“On hearing the Philistine’s words, Saul and all the Israelites were dismayed and terrified.”
1 Samuel 17:11 NIV
3）錯誤的價值觀念
From one's wrong value systems
33 “Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth.”
37 The Lord who rescued me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will rescue me from the hand of this Philistine.” Saul said to David, “Go, and the Lord be with you.””
1 Samuel 17:33, 37 NIV
4）錯誤的思想
From one's wrong thoughts
“As they danced, they sang: “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands.” Saul was very angry; this refrain displeased him greatly. “They have credited David with tens of thousands,” he thought, “but me with only thousands. What more can he get but the kingdom?””
1 Samuel 18:7-8 NIV
自卑感造成的傷害
1）孤立自己 solitary
2）與人比較 to compare with others
3）做事優柔果斷
如何克服自卑感？
1）許多聖經為人都有不如人的感覺。
2）神用平凡人作不平凡的事。
3）神看重你這個人而不是你擁有的。
因主耶穌的愛和接納撒馬利亞婦人有脫胎換骨的改變
一個經理過神無條件的愛和接納的人就不再自卑（彼得，撒該⋯⋯）
“On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.”
Matthew 9:12 NIV
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