“Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”
Amos 3:3 NIV
華人民族的十大優點：
聰明靈巧 崇尚孝道 家庭團結 長幼有序 努力上進 殷勤不懶 中庸之道 ⋯⋯
華人民族的十大缺點：
不合作 心胸狹窄 不認錯 妒忌眼紅 固步自封 排斥異自己 愛財如命 推卸責任 自私自利 差不多或隨便主義
The biggest problem of human was : Yourself.
Why...
同工變同攻
相愛變相害
Barriers:
1）目中無人心胸狹窄
2）缺乏溝通難達共識
3）缺乏團隊合作精神
Who's fault???
Jesus prayed for his disciples.
“I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name, the name you gave me, so that they may be one as we are one.”
John 17:11 NIV
建橋不建牆 You think you can protect yourself... But you actually you can't.
需要彼此信任 TRUST...
彼此肯定 彼此保護
錯誤的教會觀念
喜歡就去，不喜歡就不去⋯⋯
需要就去⋯⋯
正確的教會觀
屬靈的家
把生命獻上
與我的家一樣重要
“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12 NIV
同心合一
獨行的受害者
“In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead.”
Luke 10:30 NIV
同心同行
同心的層面
工作上同心
大家一起工作
生命上同心
你的事就是我的事
同心的層面
生命上同心
在基督裡的同心
“In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:”
Philippians 2:5 NIV
Unity in life - body, soul and spirit.
Same burden, same concept, say the same thing, do the same thing, same vision and same goal.
Unity in Vision
Unity in Mission
Unity in Concept
“The Lord said, “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.”
Genesis 11:6 NIV
How to have UNITY?
Through building relationships.
GIVE （儲蓄）
GIVING LEADS TO BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS.
How to give?
Respect
Responsibility
Trust
Understand
Cooperate
How to give?
1）學習接納別人負面的感受
讓對方表達負面的感受
接納對方負面的感受
讓對方感受到被接納
生氣就不要講話
講話不要講氣話
2）學習表達對別人正面的感受
給予欣賞
給予尊重
給予信任
敞開的程度>決定>關係的深度
Emotion (expression) relationship
Emotion (communication) relationship
如何才能同心？
謙卑
溝通
聆聽
接納
如何才能同心？
付代價
饒恕
行動
協調
Jesus pray for UNITY
““My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”
John 17:20-23 NIV
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